The question is 'What is important to them'?
It's an upheaval, a total upheaval. Leaving your extended family, leaving home, moving possibly to somewhere where you don't understand the language, or culture.
On the other hand (or foot!). It might be the best experience ever. To live somewhere different to home, to learn a new language, to enjoy a new climate. How wonderful.
We are all different, what is good for one, isn't good for another.
Don't mock anyone's decision, because 'It's their decision, about their life', Nothing to do with anyone else.
My Grandad was talking about a time when he spoke with Charlie Mitten, ex Manchester United player. My Grandad was visiting his Uncle in hospital, who was an extremely popular man. There were several people already visiting, and his Uncle said 'do me a favour and go an speak with the chap in the bed across the ward'. My Grandad turned to his Uncle and said 'what am I going to talk about'. His Uncle said 'he is Charlie Mitten, ex Manchester United, who moved oversea's, he rarely has any visitors, he will love your company'. My Grandad went over and spent a wonderful afternoon with him
So, who was Charlie Mitten;
Born in 1921, he went through the junior ranks of Manchester United, however due to the outbreak of war, he didn't get his first professional match until 1946. During the War, he did however guest appear for the nearest football to him at the time. He didn't let anything get in the way of him actually playing. Back at Manchester United, he played during the early days of Matt Busby, well before the Busby Babes - In fact he was one of the 'Famous Five of Old Trafford', a formidable group of players made up of;
- Jimmy Delaney
- Stan Pearson
- Jack Rowley
- Johnny Morris
- And of course Charlie.
In 1950 Man United toured the USA, to sell out stadiums. The footballers suddenly realised their worth and questioned the £12 per week maximum wage allowed by FIFA. A few players were approached by external leagues, and Charlie was no different, being approached by the Columbians. Charlie went to Independiente Santa Fe, during a period they called El Dorado. Charlie received £5000 signing on, and £40 per week - The footballers and fans back home nicknamed him 'The Bogota Bandit'.
Charlie didn't look to the future. The following year Columbia joined FIFA. Charlie was still a Man United player and therefore couldn't play for Independiente anymore. He returned to the UK. Because of his running away to Columbia, on his return he was immediately placed on a 6 month ban, and to top it all Busby sold him, such was his upset. He was approached to play for Real Madrid, but in his upset and confusion he turned the offer down, which he regretted.
Charlie was the fore-runner of today's footballers. He paved the way for them to be able to move around quite freely, chasing the money, or chasing experience. As with anything, someone has to be the first and they generally have the rough ride, so that people after have the smooth.
My Grandad had a nice chat with him, and he was great-full for someone to talk to. It would be nice if today's footballers were aware of the Guy who paved the way.
Charlie was the fore-runner of today's footballers. He paved the way for them to be able to move around quite freely, chasing the money, or chasing experience. As with anything, someone has to be the first and they generally have the rough ride, so that people after have the smooth.
My Grandad had a nice chat with him, and he was great-full for someone to talk to. It would be nice if today's footballers were aware of the Guy who paved the way.